I used to check my emails, and scan my Facebook feed ten times a day, eagerly looking for the one thing that would wake me up from my slumber, give me a clear idea of my life’s mission and give me permission to become the person I knew I was supposed to be.

But that one thing never arrived. How could it, when it’s not out there? You can read thousands of emails and posts from coaches, gurus, even “the Universe”, and while they might motivate you for a short time, none of them can give you the secret to being your true self.

Eventually I got to the point where I’d consumed enough, and my brain couldn’t take any more. That’s when I started creating, giving, and serving those who need to hear what I have to say.

My true message comes from inside me, just as yours will come from inside you.

No matter how many personal development books you read, or podcasts you listen to, the only thing that will really change your life is the decision to change.

YOU have to be the one to make that decision, because YOU are the only one who can.

Your family, friends, spouse and colleagues can give you support, or opinions, or criticism, if they want to. But the only voice that really matters is that one in your head. You know the one – it’s screaming to you that you’re not doing what you’re supposed to be. You don’t fit in where you are, no matter how “right” or safe it might feel. You’ve got a unique place in the world, and you’ll only find that place if you get out your map and compass and set off toward it.

You might not feel brave enough to share your inner voice with the world. You might be caught up in worrying about what other people think. When I post this (if I post it?), what will the reaction be? Will people click like or share, or comment, or will they ignore it and keep scrolling? Worse, will they troll it and tell lies about me?

None of that matters. Not really.

You’ve learned enough for now. You can keep taking more courses, training, webinars… There’s enough information out there to keep us all reading and watching for the whole of our lives.

But until we start writing and speaking about our own messages, we’ll never find our own true voice. And we’ll never find our own happiness and inner peace.

My message is that you CAN write your own story, create your own destiny, choose your own adventure.

I’m here to guide and support others in finding their own best life.

All you need is to believe in yourself, and to be yourself. I know that to be true, and I’m sure you do too.

What’s your message?

What are you sharing with the world?

What do you wish you could share?

There are hundreds of “lurkers” out there, too scared to speak, or too comfortable in the dreaded “comfort zone”. Imagine what an exciting world it would be if everyone decided to finally step up and be their true selves!

Are you tired of being a lurker?

If you want to join me on the path to adventure, comment below.